The last three years has brought so much change to my life. I made a decision to be more optimistic and to become a positive person. I worked hard everyday to make my glass half full. You may scoff, but by doing this, it changed my way of thinking. Negative people suck energy from you. I decided that I wanted to GIVE energy to others instead.
I know it sounds crazy, but it is not an easy feat to change your attitude and outlook but after a while it became habit. If someone rushed to a door to beat me, I would open the door for them. Same with grocery lines- go ahead of me, I have more items than you do. By doing this, it gave me control of each situation rather than being negative about something- I turned it into a positive and made people’s days in small ways.
I believe that this was the absolute very most important thing that God did to guide me and prepare me as we head into month 9 of moms battle. Attitude is everything… He and my family gave me confidence to change jobs, this brought me to a position that is challenging in a good way. It surrounded me with a support group in work with so many caring people that it makes my head spin. So the last three years has been in preparation for me to be able to keep my glass 1/2 full, my attitude good, kept my ability to laugh intact and to be the absolute best that I can be right now.
So remember if you are in a slump…sometimes the best way to change it is to change your outlook and attitude. By doing that you will experience personal growth and it works like a magnet to draw people to you that need to be there at that time….unexplainable but true.
Don’t get me wrong….I can still be a fire breathing bitch my friends 😉 but those occasions are few and far between and it has to be a big big thing that gets me to that place.
So next time you really want to whine about something…..stop for a minute and think…..does whining give me energy? NO. Does it draw people to me? NO. Does it make people want me to shut up and make them want to run away? YES.
Use that energy instead to look for things to be thankful for, reasons why something could be alright, or better yet, what can be done to change it? Is it within my control? Hold yourself accountable for your thoughts, your actions and your abilities. Remember, if you can’t control your life……you CAN control the way you can view it.
So here is to a ” cup 1/2 FULL” day.